Within that 23 hours, I went to Eros for the first time, it is one of San Francisco's gay sex club. I met a black man who is wise and fun to talk with. He had a great charisma and was considerate for others.
He told me some great tips regarding doing anything sexual with strangers:
- Are you sure you want to kiss them? They might've eaten someone out or swallowed someone beforehand. The bacteria in their mouth can get into yours through cross-contamination. Even if you haven't agitated your gums from brushing your teeth, the bacteria can get to the mucous membranes in your mouth and throat or through any small scrapes in your mouth.
- Are you sure you want to blow them? Do they have sores or lesions on their dick? Also, pathogens exist in pre-cum AND cum.
- You don't know a stranger's sex history (past or immediate), or if they are hygienic.
- Are you sure you want them to blow you? If they just got a collection of bacteria in their mouth, there's a chance they can get on your urethra. Are you sure you want them to use their cum to jerk you off?
If you don't know that person,
you don't know their background,
you don't know if they're lying.
Settle on the thrill that you're with a stranger, and do it safely.
(condoms condoms condoms)
Hand jobs, petting, kissing everywhere else.
Save your treasures for someone you know and love.